Being Socially Savvy - Part 1- Conversations with Singapore Ladies

I was talking to one of my female friends recently and she related to me how socially unsavvy are some of these Singapore Guys who try to chat up with her.

Well, You see... this female friend of mine is smoking hot and she knows how to dress up well, so she gets hit on in the pubs by different Singapore Men frequently.

She related an incident to me where this guy, simply appears out of no where, didn't even keep proper eye contact with her and suddenly ask her 'wanna dance?'.... Well, obviously, she got freaked out!

Then she told me about this other guy who gets nervous around Pretty Girls so much that his palms turn all sweaty when he sees one.

So she spent a good part of the night sitting alone with me complaining about all these Singapore Men with their weird behaviours and body language.

After hearing all these complaints, I thought I should address this issue of Social Savviness. This is a HUGE topic so I am going to cover it in parts beginning with CONVERSATIONS with Singapore Ladies.

Note that in your communication with Singapore Ladies, you are in fact, communicating your personality and profile. To create an Attractive profile, your commuication should reflect the Positive, Fun-Loving, Intelligent side of you.

Be Positive - Quit complaining about your job, boss, parents, siblings, neighbour's dog and what not... Complaining simply shows that you are a negative person who does not appreciate the present things you have in life. In fact, develop a personality that learns to Enjoy the Moment and Appreciate your current situation. By doing so, you will be more happy and it shows in your body language and communication.

Also, do not try to imitate girls, Singapore Women tend to like to bitch and complain a lot with their friends. This is Women's way of bonding with their friends. However, they do not expect the Guys to behave the same by complaining a lot! In fact, complaining a lot is really sissy behaviour! Please completely abandon that Complaining, Negative Side of you!

Fun Loving - Be humorous in your conversations with Singapore Ladies. Don't bore your Date to her death by only using Plain, Nice, Polite conversations. Instead, make her laugh! Learn some funny personality or IQ tests to tease and amuse her. Poke fun at her but do not be sacrastic!

Intelligence - Reflect depth in your conversations by offering her your opinion on different matters. For example, it is unavoidable in conversations with Singapore Ladies that you or she will talk about BGR issues. I love talking about BGR issues, because I can provide my expert opinion on these issues to show my maturity and depth in thoughts. So, hone your advise giving skills till you sound like Aunty Agony!

There are a whole lot more to 'Conversations with Singapore Ladies'. In fact, I have devoted a whole section on this topic in my 'Power Up Your Dating' Workshop.

To find out more about the 'Power Up Your Dating' Workshop, email me at principal@schoolofdatingmagic.com now.