Theories behind - What to do on the 1st Date
On the 1st date, what you want to do is to keep things simple but still create the best impressions.
ELEVATING STATUS
You want to keep things simple because the effect of ‘keeping things simple’ is that you are evaluating her and by doing so , it means ‘you are not an easy guy’, thus increasing your value and elevating status.
By ‘evaluating her’, I mean assessing the girl based on her personality and character traits and not just based on her looks. Girls tend to think guys can be pretty lame just to fall in love with them upon their physical traits. However, they are drawn to guys who seem impervious to their physical seductions but more their character traits.
HOW TO KEEP THINGS SIMPLE?
A 1st date should typically be a simple dinner at a non-expensive restaurant or a drink in a coffee house like Starbucks.
HOW DO YOU CREATE THE BEST IMPRESSIONS?
By infusing the date with high energy, interesting, and humorous elements. Start the date with high energy and say something funny right at the start. Choose to narrate interesting things that you might have seen recently or relate a funny story and remember to give a BIG smile!
Later on the date, spice things up with magic or do some funny IQ tests to make her laugh. Also, show that you treasure her views and opinions using opinion openers to get her contributing to the conversation.
Remember to bring your date to different strategic locations also. For example, ask for her help to choose a present for Mother’s Day which is coming up soon!
For more dating tips and advise, please look out for our May – Power Up Your Dating Workshop! See here for more info.
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ELEVATING STATUS
You want to keep things simple because the effect of ‘keeping things simple’ is that you are evaluating her and by doing so , it means ‘you are not an easy guy’, thus increasing your value and elevating status.
By ‘evaluating her’, I mean assessing the girl based on her personality and character traits and not just based on her looks. Girls tend to think guys can be pretty lame just to fall in love with them upon their physical traits. However, they are drawn to guys who seem impervious to their physical seductions but more their character traits.
HOW TO KEEP THINGS SIMPLE?
A 1st date should typically be a simple dinner at a non-expensive restaurant or a drink in a coffee house like Starbucks.
HOW DO YOU CREATE THE BEST IMPRESSIONS?
By infusing the date with high energy, interesting, and humorous elements. Start the date with high energy and say something funny right at the start. Choose to narrate interesting things that you might have seen recently or relate a funny story and remember to give a BIG smile!
Later on the date, spice things up with magic or do some funny IQ tests to make her laugh. Also, show that you treasure her views and opinions using opinion openers to get her contributing to the conversation.
Remember to bring your date to different strategic locations also. For example, ask for her help to choose a present for Mother’s Day which is coming up soon!
For more dating tips and advise, please look out for our May – Power Up Your Dating Workshop! See here for more info.
“©2009 School Of Dating Magic, All rights reserved. You understand that the information contained in http://www.schooofdatingmagic.com or in any School of Dating Magic Workshops or verbal or written communication is an opinion, and it should be used for personal entertainment purposes only. You are responsible for your own behavior, and none of this material in http://www.schoolofdatingmagic.com or by School of Dating Magic is to be considered legal or personal advice."
